We coudn’t have stated it better certainly— it is a chicken and egg dilemma of whether we must be much more relaxed first or even the children should be well informed. The things I have actually noticed however is, it works inside our benefit… if i will bring myself to flake out only a little, my daughter’s confidence improves only a tad bit, that makes it easier for me personally to flake out a tad bit more and so forth. It’s been a way that is nice use of my latent/occasional helicoptering tendencies 🙂